Letting Go

Letting go from a relationship is quite very difficult, you have fallen in love, you been with him for a while, you used to having him around always, you turned other guys down because you felt you have found "the one" but the truth hits you in the face that what appeared to be gold wasn't after all, so u try to patch things up for starters, you go out of your way to please hoping he could love you, but the truth is you just have to let go, everyone deserves to be treated right, and if you are not getting that then move on, what goes on in a relationship will continue in marriage (that's if u guys get there at all). Its important to see the signs of a relationship doomed for failure, you can't make a man love you. So you shouldn't remain in an abuse relationship, hoping the guy is gonna end up loving you if you put up with his behaviors.A  man who hits you doesn't value or respect you, stop with the 'he is just hot tempered', that's just you given excuse for his flaws. A man in love wouldn't hurt what his hearts beats for. Stop enduring abuse cos you feel, you wont find someone who is gonna love you, so you sticking to what you have, it doesn't work that way, there is a man for every woman, establish yourself, look good, love yourself, eat well, hangout at the right places and of course choose your circle, when you hangout with the right set of friends, you gonna have positive inputs in your life, talk, act and dress to attract the kind of man you want, dress properly for the right occasion and you will a attract a responsible guy, if the guy hits you, puts you down in front of his friends and even privately, if he insults you and makes you feel less, then he doesn't deserve you dear. make the right choice and do whats good for you