Is The Relationship Stupid? (part 1)

You find yourself being with someone who doesn't make you happy, whose presence intimidates you rather than bring out the best in you, often at times we lead ourselves on into unhappiness, and for no reason should a person continue in such a relationship, you either make changes or abandon ship.......
Now there are lot of reasons why a relationship could be stupid;
(1) Confidence: If you are not proud of the relationship, if you are ashamed of your partner, for any reason, whether, looks, profession, religion, tribe etc, then you shouldn't be together. You cant hold hands in public, you can't go out together, then its a ,no. One of the reasons why people remain in a relationship where they are not proud of their partner, is because of what they benefit by being in the relationship, or they love the person but they are more concerned with what their family and friends think. Well yes, its important for your family to accept you partner, but you are not helping by hiding the relationship.
(2)Communication: If you can't talk to your partner, about the way you feel, how your day went, your fantasy, if you cant share your dreams and ambitions with your partner and listen to their ideas and opinions, if there is no dialogue based on mutual interest and understanding, then you shouldn't be there.
(3)Pity;Never, ever be in a relationship out of pity, so you are scared of hurting the persons feelings and so you lead the person on, that's mean, its totally wrong, open up and tell him or her how you truly feel, of course you don't have to be harsh or rude about it, but honesty is always the best.
(4)Humor: You can't share jokes, have fun, tease , play with your partner and enjoy each others company then you need to learn to. 
(5)Compliments:If you can't compliment each other, on looks or as a way of making your partner feel good about themselves or anything, then its a big no, words of admiration is important in making your partner feel loved, its important to your partner  to hear you compliment them, the little,"you look good" goes a long way. It could be words of compliment, admiration and gratitude.
(6)Trust: You can't leave him for 30mins, without thinking he is with another chick, then you got it all wrong sisters,  its not healthy for a relationship to grow, if you love someone then you should trust them, am not saying you should be dumb, no, but unnecessary fits of distrust & jealousy isn't going to build the relationship.
(7)Support:If you don't support each others dreams and ambitions, then its an issue, if  you can't be there or support to your partner to achieve their dreams , then where is the love? your  partner needs your support, it adds a sense of joy to it if you are behind them, to support, give ideas, give constructive criticism, and be there to encourage them, but if you are with someone who doesn't have plans or ambitions then runaway............i repeat run away!!